THE MOST VULNERABLE SONG WAYLON JENNINGS EVER SANG WAS AN APOLOGY THAT DIDN’T BELONG TO HIM. Bob McDill wrote “Amanda” in 1973, not long after landing in Nashville, and it took him roughly thirty minutes. He has described it as a subconscious apology to his own wife, for the first years of their marriage when he couldn’t give her anything. He wanted Waylon Jennings to sing it. Waylon wasn’t in the office that day, so McDill left it with the receptionist and asked her to make sure it got through. It never got past that desk. Waylon finally heard the song coming out of a radio in Don Williams’s voice, tucked on the back of another McDill tune that had climbed into the country Top 15. He called the songwriter and said, “That’s the story of my life, Hoss,” then asked why he’d never been given it. McDill told him to go look on his own receptionist’s desk. He recorded it in 1974 for The Ramblin’ Man and let it sit there, unreleased as a single, for nearly five years. Overdubs were added for his first Greatest Hits, the record went out in April 1979, and on June 30 it reached number one and held for three weeks — his eighth solo chart-topper. Country’s toughest outlaw never wrote an apology. He just needed a year, a car radio, and another man’s marriage to recognize one.
Waylon Jennings and the Song That Felt Like an Apology Some songs arrive like hits. Others arrive like confessions. “Amanda”…