HE DIDN’T WRITE IT FOR HER — BUT SHE WALKED DOWN THE AISLE TO IT — STUDIO CITY, JUNE 2009. HE HAD LIVED A LIFETIME OF NOISE BEFORE JANIE LISZEWSKI. HE WOULD STAY MARRIED TO HER FOR 11 YEARS — UNTIL A HOSPITAL ROOM IN SANTA MONICA ON OCTOBER 6, 2020. THE SONG WAS “WHEN IT’S LOVE” — WRITTEN IN 1988, LONG BEFORE HE EVER MET THE WOMAN IT WOULD EVENTUALLY BELONG TO. Nobody expected Eddie Van Halen to get quiet. But he proposed in a private room at Tiffany’s in Hawaii, and they married at his house with 100 guests, corn dogs on the menu, and a string quartet playing his own song. Alex officiated. Wolfgang — his son with Valerie — stood as best man. Valerie sat in the pews. Janie had been his publicist first. Then his partner through years of throat cancer, surgeries, silence. “My heart and soul have been shattered into a million pieces,” she wrote the day he died. In a genre defined by leaving — what does it mean when the loudest guitar on earth finally goes quiet in the arms of the woman who stayed?
He Didn’t Write It for Janie Liszewski, But It Became Theirs Anyway Some love stories begin with a song. This…